Great! Are you to the point where you can love her unconditionally and take all her garbage without taking it personally?
As long as I continue to look at it as I am already done what do I have to lose. If things start to get better that is when I really have to watch it as I will be less detached.
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I feel it is more important for you to SHOW her. I have a hard enough time changing my behavior, let alone explaining to someone else that they need to change and actually have them listen, especially MsR2C.
I will show and wait for a better time to say something to her. Time is running low is the only problem.
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As long as one person can step out of the box and change the interactions, that is all that matters. The relationship has to change. WE have the responsibility to make our personal changes because we can SEE the negative effects of our subconscious behavior and WE know that we need to stop doing what does not work.
Yeah we can make the changes which I have to keep in mind is for myself and not for her otherwise there will be resentment towards her.
"Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" Matthew 6:33
