He just called (usually does when he's on his way to get the boys from daycare). Its so hard going dark/dim when it seems there are so many things to discuss. He told me what his plans were for the boys tonight. He asked about something he got in the mail from my atty. He asked about house stuff. Asked how the dog was (had to bring him to the vet today for an infection). Talked about the lawnmower. Saturday when he came over and we had our argument, he bitched and moaned that it was going to cost him $250 for a new battery, and today I told him it costs $64. I said "not sure where you got the 250 figure from." and he said "oh, I was just mad, so I said that" He told me that he called his lawyer and left a message, that he's definitely firing him and representing himself.
I hate that we 'talked' so much. At least I was the first to get off the phone, seems that he would have kept talking. I also never asked him anything.. Just kept answering his questions. I wouldnt have even answered (I missed a call from him earlier today and never called back) but I always like to answer around this time in case he has the boys with him.
Me: 36 H: 33 S1: 4 S2: 2 Together: 13 years Married: 7 years Bomb: May 09 Found out about affair: June 09 Moved out: June 09 He Filed: July 09 Moved in with OW: July 09