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Hey,

OK I know you are not his mommy, but
*if you are tired of waiting

*if you have all the paperwork ready

*if you have the pauper's oath thing (btw I love that word, pauper, it doesn't get used enough smile )

Could you find a way to take a Monday off and fly down there, and walk his a$$ to the courthouse with all the papers? I swear it sounds like that is what you would have to do to get him to move.


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Lola,

I read your posts...LOL...Then I start singing "Lola" shortly there after..LOL.

As far as the sex thing....seem like you had a confidence shaker from the STBX. Of course playing it off is easier said than done. In my honest opinion about the subject...the bitchier the woman..the better the bedroom time...lol. Just my experiences! Don't you have a boy toy also....I think that more than speaks for your performance ability in bed.

In the end, it was probably your STBX's feelings of inadequacy in bed that was affecting his libido...and he just wanted to throw his junk at you instead of dealing with it himself...that line sounds real bad...lol.


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If I could I would.

But...

A friend of mine pointed something out to me. Although we don't live in the same state, and NY has a two year waiting period...

We have been separated for two years.

In the alternative, I am thinking that I could just mail the paperwork to the clerk's office in Texas, file the damned thing and get it over with myself.

As for the motion to lift the stay, well, I do work in an attorney's office.

I love the pauper's oath too. It reflects my life lmao!!! But at least I am free.


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At this point I wouldn't mind having some 'junk' thrown my way... whistle...just sayin'


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Originally Posted By: Lostforwords
Lola,

I read your posts...LOL...Then I start singing "Lola" shortly there after..LOL.

Don't you have a boy toy also....I think that more than speaks for your performance ability in bed.


I do have a boy toy, although sex only happened the one time, he is still sniffing around a bit. That is a good point though. I must be doing something right.

I would like to throw stbx's junk right back at him though...lmao!


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Every time I hear La la la la Lola I crack up...


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ROFLMAO...Singing the song right now....the four kids in the house are looking at me like I am crack...lol.

BobbiJo-Do you mean to tell me woman want junk? OMG...I have been living in the wrong house to long....LOL


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Oh I love junk. Speaking of junk has anyone checked out Christopher Meloni's junk from when he was on Oz? MMMMM tasty. I have never really lusted after a picture, but damn was I thinking all kinds of really nasty thoughts after seeing him in THAT one.....


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I must have missed that one. Then again, I am not much into watching a bunch of naked men in jail either.....LOL


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LOL...well I cannot imagine you would be. Unless, well, you know. Which I am getting the feeling you are not... wink


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