Welcome etrain. We're all here with you. You sound a lot like me 9 months ago.
I'll chime in with more later, but this one line caught my eye...
Originally Posted By: etrain
...and the possibility that my W is having an EA. I found an incriminating email but she claims it was the first "flirty" email exchange they've had...and the last.
In my case, it was a flirty text message that I found.
My wife also claimed that it was the first and the last and that it was nothing and that it was a mistake...
And then I discovered more later, and again she claimed it was over.
And then a month later I looked deeper and found out how serious it was.
And later I found out how long it had REALLY been going on.
An EA is serious.
While there is an EA, then your wife will not be capable of working on the R.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
