Anyone have any ideas about this? My thought is just to tell W this is something the family would like to do, so let's do it.
Of course do it but it is because you have decided to not because your family wants to.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.