Newbie (again)

[dday101798]

Trust me, you XW will live with regret. Especially after the string of bad relationships and bad men. You are the yard-stick by which all men she meet will be judged. She will never be able to get away from your memory and the life you had together.

Heh, string of bad relationships and men, hopefuly the rest won't be in the direct exposure of the kids as this one has been. If I'm her yard stick and Om is based on my criteria, who the hell is the Pollock in our former marriage? I thought it was me, but on that analogy I must be wrong. Better yet, sorry Sg, I just odn't see how that is being applied. That or her judgement as has been her standards have not been set very high.

You should let go of your lack of a sense of urgency to accomplish your XW's requests. You're holding on to it still and that means she still has power over you. Do what's right by you and people will notice your happiness.

I think you missed me, I don't do squat for XW at her request anymore, haven't in what a year and half? That's why I felt rejected and worthless, the thought that she had someone else to do that now. No, not anymore, and I won't allow the very thought that X has power over me, each and every time she may think she has found a new way, I will stand deteremined to make it known she doesn't.

Ugh! I really don't want to see my ex AT ALL. I just go an email from her stating that she has some of my stuff from my grandmother. I'm just going to tell her to mail it to me.
This is just another ploy to try and be 'friends.' I will absolutely NOT tolerate cake-eating.

No kids, no need. Hell even tho we have kids, I have made it very clear, we don't have to be 'friends', just parents, nothing more, nothing less.