I don't want to involve the police--yet, Kat. I'll talk to L tomorrow. She said I shouldn't do anything to make a scene so that might happen if police are involved. Plus scary for the kids I think.
I think he will try to grab them again after our volunteer work at the church, so I'll see who's there today (hopefully a big guy or something) and if so I will ask them to walk with us to the car. As a witness maybe.
Another thing that just popped into my head today although it would be expensive prob., do you think I should ask my L about getting a psych eval on X? I know DC in Separating did that with his stbx, and I think it may have helped him out. I don't know. He seemed normal for so long though, don't know if a psych eval would work. He seems crazy to me though this past year or so. Any opinions on that? I think you guys know our sitch and X better than my L even.
X is threatening to switch the date of giving me custody/alimony check. He had switched it from the original biweekly dates to the 1st and 15th (and of course I had to wait a week or so for the first check when that happened.) Now he's threatening to switch back to the biweekly and make me wait until his next biweekly paycheck (he just got paid Friday). I told him I have plans today and no time to drop off the kids. He emails "I'm aware of your plans for the theatre tonight (how do you think he knows that?) and asked me if S15 is doing the food bank (so he can pick up the kids prob.). I am leaving now to get D9 and don't plan on replying as I'll be doing stuff with her. oh. well.
