He is looking at this like it was a small error in judgement on his part. He doesn't want to see the total betrayal he perpetrated on you for 3 darned years while gaslighting you into thinking you were nuts. Too bad for him.

No contact? I don't think that is really possible because of the kids, but very little contact....totally appropriate. I don't know if you want to let him stew on this too much though or he could become more obstinate and fight you over details.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!