Leaving the Land of Insanity...

[mishka422]

I wanted to write up our settlement and get it taken care of, so I did. I wanted to go to the movies, so I did.

All good.

I don't think the message to the kids would be quite as confusing if they weren't so little. Spending all that time together is going to keep them on edge expecting you to get back to 'family life' as they knew it.

There doesn't need to be animosity between you and Dan, just be careful with how much the kids see you together. Making sure that they see you interact in a positive way when they are present is good, doing activities together is not. Too much hope involved in that for them.