Something along the lines of "You have caused me to waste 3 years of my life. Please do me the favor of releasing me from the burdeon of being married to you."
That would be sufficient, IMO. Just building his guilt without stating "just give met he D now and stop stalling" doesn't seem very effective. He's a bit on the thick headed side!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
