At the risk of continuing a threadjack (and at the risk of dating myself), I felt a little like that deaf, dumb, and blind kid, Tommy. I'd been told for so long that I couldn't/shouldn't/didn't or was a bad person for feeling hurt, anger or resentment that I couldn't even use those words in session at first. It was weird.
It was past the semantics of just not using the words. I really didn't know what that feeling was that I was talking about and I'd have to ask her. I'd relate an event, she'd ask me how I felt and I'd give her a description. And she'd say, "So you felt angry?" And I'd deny it. But she was right.
<shrug>
/end threadjack
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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