I read 'em. Just don't have anything helpful to offer- accept the totally obvious- it's not you, it's him. And of course you should not ask.
You've come a long way. You're doing great. smile

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing