A wise IC once told me that I was doing pretty much everything I could to avoid feeling my feelings, and that included thinking about them intellectually and analyzing them.
excellent insight. I gotta chew on this for awhile.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012