Seriously, how did you get to be so wise in all this MLC stuff?
I stayed at a Holiday Inn Express last night.....;p
Also, I CHOSE to dig in an understand HER path as well as mine...
Originally Posted By: trustingfaith
I am definitely angry in ways I haven't been before. But when I step back and look at it from outside of my head, I realize that if I was in a crisis (of any kind) I would be devastated if he didn't want to stick around.
He does deserve for me to stick with my vows. So do the kids.
If you are gonna "dig in "......Do the work, you won't regret it.
Use your anger as a shield-not a sword.
Originally Posted By: trustingfaith
Interestingly, this "anger" phase for me has also made me reexamine myself the past day or two and the changes I have made and still need to. I do like who I am becoming. I am frustrated that some things I wanted to try/change/do I haven't yet. Mostly my fault.
YOU are the only thing stopping you right now....
Originally Posted By: trustingfaith
I cannot tell you what a Godsend this board has been for me - all the advice and support has been absolutely invaluable. Thanks all!!!
