I would be curious to know how the OW came up/out? Missing some context there. Was it a neanderthal attempt at making you jealous brought up by him? Was it something you teased out in the midst of his confusion and weakness?
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09