#66 Looking for Susnhine...

[mishka422]

Indeed....a 3 year R is a decision, not a mistake.

K, he decided to live a double life, he decided to lie repeatedly to you even when confronted about her, he decided to destroy his family.

You are now deciding to move on with your life. Why rehash any more of this with him. You will not get satisfactory answers, assuming he can even give them to you. It seems like he doesn't know his own mind or why he did all of this really. Let it go. Leave it behind.

I added that "I am sorry we got here. It is difficult for a couple to overcome a one night stand which can be considered a mistake, imagine how impossible it is to overcome a 3 year relationship which I am not sure would have ended if I had not found out the truth. I cant do it. Especially since you keep lying about a few things that you know I KNOW:

IMO, you're beating a dead horse here. You've said it all. Told him your feelings. Interrogated him. Is it really worth the pain of bringing it up anymore or is it done to try to punish him? I guess I'm not sure what the motivation is here.