You know, I have had to set those limits w/ my XH. We have been D for almost 10 years, and on occasion, he still wants to resort to the "family" thing. He attempts to drag D13 in the middle of it. Leaves me to be the bad guy and explain that although we both love her, and we are both her family, we are not family to each other anymore.

Thankfully, she gets it more than he does.

Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..