Old "newbie" needs help FAST!!! Please respond!!

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Not sure if this was the right approach or not. But after she said yesterday morning: "I have no love left for you, no warmth. The changes are too little too late." I said you know what if you have no intention of really trying, don't go. If you are already gone in your mind and if you have any compassion left for me, don't string me along. Trying to put on a show for your family/friends that you tried. This weekend shouldn't just be a checklist for you to say, I tried and it didn't work.

Last night she said that she needs to think about for a couple days and she will let me know. I guess by the end of the week, I will no one way or the other if she truly wants to give it a try.

Maybe I am pushing things too much. Maybe I should have kept a low profile and just went. But I felt if she didn't really have her heart into it, it would just be her checking it off a list. She already has told me over and over again what her issues are. I have addressed them and she has seen and felt the difference. It has made her turn around once and say "maybe" Even our kids crying last week about us getting a divorce(they overheard a conversation we had late at night) hasn't moved her either.

She is not the most spiritual person either. Not sure the guilt of god could sway her either..