I feel sick this morning. I hope some of you can check in here for the next couple of days. I "understand" him but I am torn as to whether to give an ultimatum, be cool, or just cut him off completely. I don't want to punish him for his honesty but for this to be my "marriage"...well, it disgusts me.

Thanks for any support. I am at a new juncture and needing a new plan. I am deeply saddened but not in a sad mood. I know I will have a great day anyway.