He isn't just sorry about introducing her to his family, he's sorry about everything. Well that's nice but it doesn't really mean anything to me. It doesn't address the fact that I will have to see Brother and SIL at the next family gathering knowing that they met the whore and now wonder if they liked her better than me. . . .
. . . And so it goes. I feel like I'm pulling teeth, like he is only going to answer the most specific question I ask and skirt around anything he either thinks I don't want to hear or that he doesn't want to tell me.
Pearl,
No offense, but if the above is how you react when he does, I would probably feel the same way.
As I've posted to you before, if I were your BF, I would feel like I'm in an impossible, "can't-win-with-you" situation. I think it's right and appropriate to hold him accountable for what he does NOW, but to forever hold him in some sort of ex post facto infidelity prison, for what happened BEFORE, seems very unfair to me. He's loving, remorseful (remember, somewhere around HALF of BSs don't even get contrition or remorse) and reasonably transparent with you.
And keep in mind, I'm a formerly betrayed spouse, too!
