Trust me, you XW will live with regret. Especially after the string of bad relationships and bad men. You are the yard-stick by which all men she meet will be judged. She will never be able to get away from your memory and the life you had together.
You should let go of your lack of a sense of urgency to accomplish your XW's requests. You're holding on to it still and that means she still has power over you. Do what's right by you and people will notice your happiness.
Ugh! I really don't want to see my ex AT ALL. I just go an email from her stating that she has some of my stuff from my grandmother. I'm just going to tell her to mail it to me. This is just another ploy to try and be 'friends.' I will absolutely NOT tolerate cake-eating.
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08
