I've got a nosy neighbor, Sunday i told him to quit trying to help so much around my house,wife needs to do things for herself,like mow and rake or teach the kids.
Not the one that wife is having an EA with.
Anyway he emailed me today and said he wasn't going to lie for me.
I emailed him back, don't lie, just don't mention it, you can help prevent or precipitate a divorce. you decide if you want to be happy or right.