I had to comment on your 8/31 post. The divorce is done! Been done for 6 months!
Why call screaming? Doesn't she have what she wanted? I'm going through a similar situation where WAW left, started school, started affair - but won't sign papers. I don't understand - I'm so "awful", and now you've "gotten away", so go! the LBS GALs and learn to love life, it drives them nuts!