Lotus: you are absolutely right and I didn't intend on giving off the impression that the Retro weekend is "less" than it is. There were many great moments, even for us. If both people are willing to let the miracle work inside them, the design of the entire weekend is to develope a rebirth of a marriage. The dialogue questions have a clear pattern of development and it takes you on a journey together.

My husband was just one of the people who did an about face the last day. I could see it happening right before my eyes. Personally, I think he realized how much work marriage is and how much changing he is going to have to do and he is just simply not willing to get inside himself to turn this around.

Thanks,

Gina B


M 43 H 34
D 4
H asked for D on 6/21/09:1st D mediation 7/27;D says he wants to try 8/18;
*I will stumble, I will fall down but I will not be moved.(N.Grant)