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Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er.... Mach1 #1846716 09/29/09 01:15 PM
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cat04 Member C Joined: May 2009 Posts: 2,375	Welcome, welcome, welcome... I agree you do seem to have a decent grasp of this, and I don't think all of the intro stuff needs to be repeated... Remember, because it will make it easier for you, they do not move through the stages in a linear fashion... They bounce like a rubber ball all over the place... Keep working on you.. We know your sitch, so tell us about you now... "Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox

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Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	09/29/09 12:56 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	fisherman	09/29/09 02:56 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Mach1	09/29/09 12:31 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	peacetoday	09/29/09 01:04 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	cat04	09/29/09 01:15 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Was2sad	09/29/09 04:55 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	09/29/09 10:11 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	09/30/09 12:43 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	09/30/09 12:46 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	09/30/09 03:34 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Mach1	09/30/09 11:37 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	09/30/09 02:04 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Jack_Three_Beans	09/30/09 08:24 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Arwen_in_NJ	09/30/09 09:47 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	trustingfaith	09/30/09 09:49 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Arwen_in_NJ	09/30/09 10:06 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Was2sad	09/30/09 10:25 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	09/30/09 10:41 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	09/30/09 10:31 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Was2sad	09/30/09 10:39 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	09/30/09 10:44 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Was2sad	09/30/09 10:58 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Jack_Three_Beans	09/30/09 11:02 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/01/09 01:10 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/01/09 02:28 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/01/09 01:13 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/01/09 02:01 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/01/09 02:35 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/01/09 03:24 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	cat04	10/01/09 10:14 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Mach1	10/01/09 12:01 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/01/09 12:31 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Mach1	10/01/09 12:43 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/01/09 02:48 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	frank_D	10/01/09 06:03 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/01/09 07:45 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Jack_Three_Beans	10/01/09 07:59 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/01/09 10:28 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Jack_Three_Beans	10/01/09 10:36 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/01/09 11:02 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Twink	10/01/09 11:43 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/02/09 12:03 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/02/09 01:47 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/02/09 02:34 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	trustingfaith	10/02/09 02:42 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/02/09 03:11 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/02/09 12:31 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	peacetoday	10/02/09 12:47 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	cat04	10/02/09 12:47 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Mach1	10/02/09 02:25 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	mountain_west	10/02/09 02:37 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/02/09 02:43 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Was2sad	10/02/09 03:56 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Jack_Three_Beans	10/02/09 04:15 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/02/09 09:42 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Jack_Three_Beans	10/02/09 11:31 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/03/09 12:56 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/03/09 01:25 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/03/09 01:38 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/03/09 03:03 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/03/09 03:32 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/03/09 11:42 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/03/09 12:59 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	mountain_west	10/03/09 02:40 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/03/09 02:55 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/03/09 06:55 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	D Money	10/03/09 06:57 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/03/09 08:04 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/04/09 11:55 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/05/09 01:43 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/05/09 01:55 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/05/09 02:51 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/05/09 03:02 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	frank_D	10/05/09 03:28 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Mach1	10/05/09 11:37 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/05/09 12:06 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Grace_O	10/05/09 01:10 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	forward	10/06/09 01:38 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/06/09 02:08 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/06/09 03:28 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/06/09 12:24 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	cat04	10/06/09 12:38 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/06/09 08:29 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/06/09 09:56 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	D Money	10/06/09 11:39 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/07/09 12:34 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	sleeper	10/07/09 02:15 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Mach1	10/07/09 03:10 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	D Money	10/07/09 09:38 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/07/09 09:49 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/08/09 03:29 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/08/09 12:35 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Lostforwords	10/08/09 02:02 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Was2sad	10/08/09 03:40 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/08/09 05:15 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/08/09 11:00 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	D Money	10/08/09 11:51 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/09/09 12:42 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/09/09 03:05 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/09/09 12:31 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Mach1	10/09/09 02:19 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/09/09 02:42 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/09/09 03:00 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/09/09 10:06 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Jack_Three_Beans	10/09/09 10:34 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/09/09 10:58 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	D Money	10/09/09 10:58 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/09/09 11:34 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	D Money	10/10/09 01:39 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/10/09 07:46 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	D Money	10/10/09 10:20 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/10/09 11:50 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	D Money	10/11/09 12:23 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/11/09 01:29 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/12/09 12:46 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/12/09 03:48 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	ClingingToHope	10/12/09 04:09 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/12/09 12:56 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Was2sad	10/12/09 06:12 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/13/09 05:27 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Was2sad	10/13/09 06:45 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Grace_O	10/13/09 07:07 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/13/09 11:21 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/14/09 12:08 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Virtually_Handsome	10/14/09 12:17 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Twink	10/14/09 12:35 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/14/09 12:43 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	fisherman	10/14/09 01:08 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/14/09 01:19 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/14/09 01:43 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	cat04	10/14/09 12:56 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Jack_Three_Beans	10/14/09 04:21 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/15/09 04:01 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Was2sad	10/15/09 04:33 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/15/09 05:26 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Was2sad	10/16/09 12:13 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/16/09 01:20 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Was2sad	10/16/09 03:18 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Jack_Three_Beans	10/16/09 04:08 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/17/09 12:47 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Was2sad	10/17/09 01:39 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/17/09 02:26 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/17/09 02:36 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/17/09 02:55 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/17/09 01:10 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/17/09 02:46 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/17/09 03:17 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	fisherman	10/17/09 03:58 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	kjensen	10/18/09 12:41 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/19/09 02:56 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Virtually_Handsome	10/19/09 05:56 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	sleeper	10/19/09 11:24 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/19/09 11:39 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	fisherman	10/19/09 12:44 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	trustingfaith	10/19/09 02:43 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Was2sad	10/19/09 02:53 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Jack_Three_Beans	10/19/09 04:14 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/19/09 05:10 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	frank_D	10/19/09 06:41 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Jack_Three_Beans	10/19/09 06:53 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	cat04	10/20/09 12:12 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/20/09 01:01 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/22/09 03:11 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/22/09 12:40 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/23/09 03:04 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Jack_Three_Beans	10/23/09 04:05 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/23/09 04:25 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Jack_Three_Beans	10/23/09 04:32 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/23/09 05:11 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/23/09 07:24 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Jack_Three_Beans	10/23/09 07:35 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/23/09 08:01 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	frank_D	10/23/09 08:05 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/23/09 10:06 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Jack_Three_Beans	10/23/09 10:16 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/30/09 05:23 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Jack_Three_Beans	10/30/09 05:34 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/30/09 09:39 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Jack_Three_Beans	10/30/09 09:50 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Was2sad	11/02/09 04:43 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Jack_Three_Beans	11/02/09 05:25 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	11/06/09 01:40 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	kjensen	11/06/09 03:54 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Jack_Three_Beans	11/06/09 04:49 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	kjensen	11/08/09 04:41 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	11/08/09 04:07 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	kjensen	11/08/09 05:10 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Grace_O	11/08/09 05:35 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	11/11/09 06:10 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	11/19/09 08:49 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Jack_Three_Beans	11/19/09 09:10 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Mach1	11/19/09 09:31 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Was2sad	11/19/09 11:15 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	11/20/09 12:37 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	11/22/09 05:05 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	12/03/09 01:52 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Jack_Three_Beans	12/03/09 05:15 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	12/03/09 05:56 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Jack_Three_Beans	12/04/09 11:33 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	12/05/09 12:40 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	rukiddinme	12/05/09 05:10 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	fisherman	12/05/09 02:18 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Jack_Three_Beans	12/07/09 04:59 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	12/08/09 01:37 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Mach1	12/08/09 12:18 PM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	12/12/09 02:44 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/18/09 12:06 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/18/09 01:56 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Twink	10/18/09 02:16 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	drewnole	10/18/09 03:50 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	Amy40	10/18/09 05:28 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	fisherman	10/14/09 12:57 AM
Re: Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....	sleeper	10/10/09 12:46 AM

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