New to this Community seeking advice

[JR09]

Journaling.

Got to call the boys a couple of days ago and also talk with my W. Positive conversation. No tension at all. Even a little humor injected. I told my W I had another opportunity to travel not too far away from her. Asked if I could link up w/the boys. My W didn't say no. I just asked her to give it a thought and tell me if it's yea or nay. so we'll see.

Well, the divorce proceedings have been dismissed a month ago. My W hasn't file for anything new. Our last link up was positive. This last phone call was positive as well. These all seem to be good signs in the right direction. Am I accurate or could this mean something else? I visited with my neighbors and they told me I should kick up my contact with my w to the next level. They are bothered by the continued status quo.

But I see movement, however small. I understand maybe it's time to ask about the R and figure out where my W stands. We have been separated for 15 months, but I only started DBing about 7 months ago. I don't want to be pushy or pursuing. What step should I take now? Maybe it's safe to continue what I've been doing: taking care of myself, stay upbeat,and loving.

JR