I tend to go back and forth myself. I'll think, I've moved on, there's no way I'm taking her back, why would I want someone who's been so hurtful to me. (usually when I catch her in a lie)

But then I start thinking about how many people are capable of getting thru this and having a stronger relationship, and I don't know if divorce is right. That's what's causing me the most anxiety.

M 32 WAW 34
D - 5
S - 4
PA 1/09
Moved out 3/09
She filed 5/09
90 Day Postponement 11/09
State Dismissed case 4/10
Moved home 9/10