Oh dear, sounds so familiar... And your feelings echo my feelings. My stxH SAID that the truth why our family is broken to pieces IS his affair with the woman he was "just friends" with for a year before he moved out and not me being a horrible person and partner...

You are right, if there is any chance to reconcile, the truth had to come out. And the fact that he told you the truth is already a hit to "their" relationship. I think right now, it doenst matter what you really want. If you keep being strong and determined about YOU and your life, he will have to move quickly. THEN you figure out what you want...
K

PS...jerks!!!


Last edited by Kalni; 09/29/09 06:49 AM. Reason: Forgot the "Jerks"

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S11&D10
Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007
Reconc.November 2009