Well, the good news is that I really didn't pursue tonight. Just sat on the other side of the room. She made a point of saying, how was your day, and I looked over and she waved at me.
Once we had the conversation about money, she decided to go downstairs to her room. I did check on her after awhile because she was upset, talked for a couple of minutes, not sure if that was good or bad. She thanked me for it.
The other good news is that my appetite has returned. Seems like suddenly I've got to eat dinner twice. Those 20 pounds may be on their way back.
