I really do wish my boys to have a good time, and tell them so. But it doesn't stop me from silently wishing the OM weren't around. I also wish that xW would truly act even one tenth as respectably and honorably as she thinks of herself.

I haven't even mentioned this violation of the JPA to my L yet. I am becoming too discouraged to think anyone in court would give a d*mn.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.