So stbx is in some kind of denial? Does he think if he acts like you aren't getting a D, things will remain as they are? Hmm....

Me-35

Together: 18 yrs
M-12.5 yrs
S-8
D-4
D'd: Feb. 2010

The LORD your God is with you,
he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17