I forgot to answer your question MJ...there is no OW as of yet...but who knows.....this whole thing started out bc a former "collegue" of his told him she had feelings for him and we had been apart for jobs and really NOT putting time or effort at all into our M and she pointed that out to him..... and he started thinking and VOILA! He starts thinking Divorce.
He says that there has been no one, but at this point....who knows MJ...most people on this blog are dealing with OW or OM...and I am learning that I do not trust anything right now. I have NO idea what may be in store for me in the future regarding this MLC man in my life. One day at a time though...