The day the bomb happened she was "done". After talking a little longer I asked if she would be willing to try MC together. She agreed. I got a referral and setup the appointment for the first day they had available after the bomb (approx 2 days) and have gone a few times.
It is a good sign but I also have to be realistic. I know a friend that agreed to MC just so that the D would be "easier" on her H when it happened. I just have to have faith that she is there for the right reasons (e.g. improve herself, improve myself, improve our R and M).
My main motivation is to improve myself, if the R or M improves then great but if not then I am a better person still.
Great attitude. Improving yourself is THE key. All leads to more confidence and a healthy self image. Better H and better father.
