Please don't think the weekend is just a chance for an unhappy spouse to spew their feelings. It isn't like that at all. You do talk about your feelings, but it is always in answer to very specific questions. And the questions are never phrased in a negative way. Actually, you discover or uncover a lot of happy feelings over the weekend. The questions pull together and help you see yourself in relation to your marriage and your goals in life, but when the questions are asked, they seem almost off-topic. They are things you would never expect to be asked. Whatever you expect, the weekend will surprise you.