The day the bomb happened she was "done". After talking a little longer I asked if she would be willing to try MC together. She agreed. I got a referral and setup the appointment for the first day they had available after the bomb (approx 2 days) and have gone a few times.

It is a good sign but I also have to be realistic. I know a friend that agreed to MC just so that the D would be "easier" on her H when it happened. I just have to have faith that she is there for the right reasons (e.g. improve herself, improve myself, improve our R and M).

My main motivation is to improve myself, if the R or M improves then great but if not then I am a better person still.

M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3
M: 5/28/05
Bomb: 8/22/09
EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09
W L: 10/21/09
M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA
W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10