So far daughter is still with me. I talked to her about how all of that makes me feel. I told her it is not an option for her to live with ex, just visit. I told her I would call the police if ex kept her past her visitation schedule and then he would have to take me to court to get the divorce decree changed. I will not sacrifice my daughter for my ex's deep seeded needs. Daughter listened and did not rebel. I hope it sunk in.

Another note, ex texted me 6 times today. Telling me all about his work and the usual stresses. It was odd and really quite inappropriate. I did not respond. He is just looking for a narcissistic feed to suck dry.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11