Yes, they have been. And I know JUST what you are talking about when you say that the weekend will just let her spew all of her "feelings" out on you. I think sometimes, what Retro is meant to do is really let people know that, because of the covenant they made to God, they really can't give up until the last paper is signed. It's never really said but it's implyed a whole bunch. Sometimes I think it may be hearing the couples speak about their realtionships and what they've been through. It gives you hope. It's not a cure..but I'm sure people do get a lot of help from it. We just weren't one of those couples. So, my advice is to just go and see what might come of it. It can't get worse, right? LOL

Stay strong buddy. I know how hard it is and how long the odds seem. Just think of our children. They deserve us to hang in there. There needs to be one parent thinking straight and that's us.

Take good care and I'll chat with you soon. I'll be thinking of you.

Gina B

M 43 H 34
D 4
H asked for D on 6/21/09:1st D mediation 7/27;D says he wants to try 8/18;
*I will stumble, I will fall down but I will not be moved.(N.Grant)