First, what is DAM? (Plese tell me it isn't dumb-ass-man)
Second, you can stop excluding or highlighting my sitch...makes me feel like I'm ultra-special screwed Plus, my stich isn't as different as one might think...just elementally (or environmentally) different.
Third,
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Be a grown-up -- work the problem.
So simplistic. A) There are problems and then there are PROBLEMS. B) There is the matter of identifying problems (not an easy task when in the midst) and C) There is the matter of finding solutions to the problems.
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"Hey WAW -- maybe if you'd boned me more than once or twice a year I wouldn't have become emotionally unavailable, and then we wouldn't have had a 'problem.'"
To which WAW answers (if we're going balls out here), "maybe if I wasn't repulsed by you and the sex wasn't so boring, I might have wanted to do it more."
SP- You're pissed and having a field day which is educational and even amusing (thanks to your writing prowess)...but, I just think this is indeed mental masturbation. You care, you spent so long getting to a not caring place...now what? One minute, one hour, one day at a time. You've changed, you've learned a lot...you lead, clearly she's following. Where's it going to go? You don't know and find that intolerable now that you have a decent handle (IMO)...
Plus, my stich isn't as different as one might think...just elementally (or environmentally) different.
