Hiya CL...it's been awhile since I hopped on the boards, and I'm pleasantly surprised to see you back here, and maintaining boundaries! I think I need to take a few lessons from ya.
I was listening recently to a book about giving and receiving criticism, and the point was brought up that to receive criticism in a healthy way, we have to be able to put our ego away and consider the criticism on its own merits and then decide whether it's valid or not, and whether we want to do anything about it or not. You're doing that. Awesome.
Good luck with your continuing progress. I'm so glad for you.