H showed up for the MC appt. tonight. It seemed to go pretty well. We both opened up some more, me especially, and we covered the stuff I wanted to tonight. The MC had contacted my IC for some background info like I suggested, (I had given her a limited release- diagnostic impressions only- a couple of weeks ago). He was pleased with how well I was expressing myself, and H seemed to make a little progress with validation. I think the MC has a pretty good grasp of the hurt and anger and resentments that linger below the surface now. He wants to see us again next Thurs. to discuss how we want to proceed with the MC and the M itself.
My plan had been to call off work tomorrow and sign the lease on the apartment, and I also have a follow-up appointment with my IC at 5. Do I wait until after next week's MC session to do that? I guess I was kinda hoping we would talk about that today, meaning where do we go from here, but we were talking about the underlying issues the whole session. I don't know what to do tomorrow. I really don't. Maybe I'll still take the day off to think. I really don't know what to do next.
