From reading so many situations here, I get a sense that often the WAS keeps contact with the LBS re: "homey" things. I wonder if that gives them some sense of security which makes it easier for them to be with "shiny new person"?
Do you think that really Dudess - are you saying that they keep in touch on homey things so that they maintain their bolt-hole to run to when things go pear shaped for them?
I suspect that in some situations,( probably not yours), the WAS feeling like they have a secure home base which isn't going anywhere, makes it easier for them to maintain an affair or stay in limbo a long time. Think about it - if everyone who had an affair knew without a doubt from the git go that upon discovery, their spouse would leave, I think there were be far less infidelity. And many affairs that did happen would be more short lived.
Originally Posted By: Eskimo Nell
Glad that you got the new jeans. Yes, we all like to go there for some reason. Makes us feel good, so what the heck?
They make me feel good and my ex-H told me they show off my ass great too.
