Hi BJ, just wanted to stick my head in and let you know that I've not forgotten about you. How are you holding up?
Hey Sandi! I'm doing well. I'm still dealing with the usual crap from my W but her attitude and behaviors are starting to have a diminished effect on me. Even when she called me a "narcissist" and questioned my manhood for wanting 50% custody of our kids following mediation last week- it pi$$ed me off, but only for a little while. It's just so ridiculous- and pathetic. I think she really just needs to go away right now- move out on her own- and find a very quiet place where she can think- or rather "feel"- her way through this big fat mess that she has perpetrated.
BTW, I see you found my new thread under Newcomers. I set that one up to draw some advice from Gucci & Co re: tough love. Its a good thread and seems to be helping other people. So I'm posting on both threads right now and keeping the redundancy to a minimum. BTW, I posed a question to you on that thread the other day, not sure if you had a chance yet to respond or not.
I know how busy you are, so thanks for checking in on me. Talk to you soon.
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________