Yes, I enjoyed the ride. But, dear SP, your bitterness comes through. And I think it colors the whole story. So while we worry about her perceptions leading up to the walking, your perceptions are preventing any back walking. I know.It is your choice. And I have heard the stories of the car door and the spitting, and I don't know what else. But you were a soldier in Iraq! Surely there were worse tortures in your former life than your married life. And yes, I think you could reasonably be expected to go on to find a woman who would not attack you with car doors or body fluids. But I feel sorry for Mrs. SP, who felt a need to commit hari kari before she could allow herself a roll in the hay with Peter Pan. And those Peter Pans are so tempting!