We did go to church, then stopped about 4 years ago. Since the breakup, I've gone back and take the kids.
The crossing the line refers to her making the decision to divorce...she crossed the line and made up her mind.
Yes, I know that she is doing little things that make me wonder about her resolve...she asks about counseling, asks about it. She has talked to the counselor. When I was talking to her she asked me to look her in the eye. I did all of that and then she said "I still want a divorce'.
I was abused as a child, as I said...and I know that much of this has roots in that, but also know I make my own choices and am now working through all of this. She's just not willing to wait. She told me to get help for this long ago and I never did.
