Jman,

Glad to hear you are doing well. I'm still working my way through "Love Must Be Tough" and I agree with you completely, I wish I had read it sooner. Definitely a good book. But as with everything else, I can't beat myself up over what I might have done differently, what is done is done. The fact of the matter is that I'm dealing with something that I've never dealt with before so with a lack of experience mistakes will be made. But that is how we learn in the first place- by making mistakes. Fortunately, a mistake I have not made is not taking the high road in my dealings with my W up to this point. Regardless of how she wants to interpret how I've responded to our sitch, I am glad that I haven't compromised my standards- and lowered myself to her present standards in the process.


M: 41
W: 39
S: 11
S: 10
D: 4
1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09
EA began: 2/14/09
EA discovered: 3/1/09
I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself
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