Originally Posted By: aliveandkicking
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So what are you coaching me to do and why? You are essentially coaching your husband.


It is not really me coaching my husband cuz I don't have OM like your W. Let them fizzle out and then I can coach you.

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If we truly believe there is hope, what does it look like and how do we leave room for it while still taking care of ourselves and our children??


We do the best we can. sick


OK, I didn't communicate that well. My sitch isn't that much different from yours. You're telling me there's hope so I'm saying if you believe in what you're saying to me, you have to find a way to take care of yourself and your boys while still leaving room for hope...ya?


AKA: "Ben the school teacher"
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Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20
Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08
My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09
W w/OM 6/09-11/09

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