Hey BJ, I am more grounded now and it is due to many things mostly the detachment and I just finished reading Love must be Tough...Man that book hits the nail right on the head...I wish I would have had that book back in March bc I think my sit would have been different now but I am still going to use the principles of that book..It is amazing and I highly recommend everyone that has similar issues with infidelity of their spouse to read it It is worth its weight in Gold by far....
My sit has not changed to much..I have keeping myself very busy between working extra hours and going out with Buddies...with all the while she is staying home with the kids...I am definitely seeing things more clearly now and noticing all the details and can only hope things change but I have to do what is best for me and the kids so we shall see...No more doormat for me...
Until next time
M:35 W:36 M:10 yrs T:11.5 yrs C: B7, G3 ED: 3/09 DB: 3/20/09 Served 12-8-09 Still going through the process
