While I'm not sure if you should go A or B, if you do go B, I would not ask for a bunch of things.
Do you know your own LL? If there was one LL thing she could do that would make the sitch a little better for you, what would it be? Is it something you think she's capable of at present? If not, can you think of something that would a) meet at least a portion of your current needs and b) be something she could probably do? You know - a baby step?
If you decide on B, that's how I'd approach it, with one small thing, or perhaps a choice between two rather than a list that might seem big and demanding/intimidating.
Last edited by Dia; 09/28/0910:08 PM.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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