I can relate to the "knowing very little people". I have a whole new circle of friends now (mostly women ). I just keep working on me. I pass out what I want to receive. Smiles, friendly conversations,honest compliments, etc....The women in my life find it easy to open up to me. I listen and validate. I offer support when appropriate......Can I do it with MsR2C? Not while she is not talking to me.....I just keep practicing.
SOOOO, She is MAD. She is projecting all her anger at YOU. She does not know why she is mad, but has focused all her anger at YOU. DO NOT PULL THE ROPE!!!! She is confused. She believes that you do not understand her. Do you want her to miss you when you are away, or do you want to give her more contact so she can blame you for her unhappiness?
She feels like she has given all she has to the relationship. She has given up. That is why she is not trying right now. She believes she does not want a relationship with you. This is a time for self reflection and change (IE GROWTH). We grow during the difficult times in our lives. (I have committed to personal growth from now on...)
Enough of my 2x4's. I know this whole situation sucks. It is out of our control. All we can do is control our thoughts, actions and words. We can focus on making positive changes in our lives. We can focus on all the positive things in our lives and let the negatives fade away.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
). I just keep working on me. I pass out what I want to receive. Smiles, friendly conversations,honest compliments, etc....The women in my life find it easy to open up to me. I listen and validate. I offer support when appropriate......Can I do it with MsR2C? Not while she is not talking to me.....I just keep practicing.