I'm in limbo at least until January. That's when she can go on her pre-paid legal plan offered through her work. So all the DBing I'm doing right now may be in vain. She may just be marking time.
That will hurt. [/quote]
The DBing you are doing right now is not in vain. It should be for the reconcilliation of your marriage AND also to help make you a better person. Don't think of it as wasted time just because it doesn't end up saving your marriage.
